Kevin Kelly 说：Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
想起马男的台词，Cuddlywhiskers 荡着秋千，背景里有夕阳：It takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are, and even longer to see that it doesn't have to be that way. (Bojack Horseman S3E3)
其中 long time 以及 even longer，于我是三十年。所以有时会想，我如今不过是新生儿，还在开蒙，笨拙才是正常，一辈子也还很长。
不过，也花了三十年呢。